Consent is a personally motivated participation in sexual activity that is established through a genuine process mode of communication: verbal, non-verbal reciprocation, body language and cues. “Consensual” acts are defined by the participation of all individuals freely without coercion. In short it is a sober and enthusiastic “yes” before and during any activity.

You can read more about consent from Building Healthy Online Communities.

Anyone can be assaulted, regardless of gender or other identities. The first thing to do is get to a safe place where there are people you trust if at all possible.

You do not have to report what happened to law enforcement, but it may be an option you consider depending on where you are. In many countries, there are assault support hotlines. Some are listed here along with online resources, but you may also need to search for services where you are specifically. If you are outside of your home country, it may also make sense to contact your local embassy to find supportive services.