Building Healthy Online Communities (BHOC) is a consortium of public health leaders and gay dating website and app owners who are working together to support HIV and STI prevention online.

Dan Wohlfeiler and Jen Hecht, who together have more than 50 years of combined experience in HIV and STD prevention, co-founded BHOC in 2014. Jen Hecht is the director of BHOC.

Dan and Jen have built strong relationships with app and website owners and have found many opportunities for collaboration. These include developing profile options that allow users to make informed choices about their partners; coordinating development and placement of public health messaging about STD and HIV prevention and treatment; developing a free home HIV and STD test platform; an anti-stigma program; and an online, comprehensive, medically-accurate and easily understandable sexual health guide. We also developed initiatives to allow users to notify their partners that they may have been exposed to an STD.

After conducting research to determine which online prevention strategies had the support of app and site owners, users, and STD and HIV program directors, BHOC convened a groundbreaking meeting between the app owners and public health leaders in September 2014. Owners were eager to collaborate to promote testing, provide accurate information, reduce stigma, and implement the most effective interventions to reduce the impact of HIV and STDs. They also told public health leaders they wanted guidance on how to best promote gay men’s health. We have been working with them to accomplish these goals and more. 

Our public health partners include the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, NASTAD (the National Alliance of State and Territorial AIDS Directors), National Coalition of STD Directors, National Coalition for Sexual Health, AIDS United, San Francisco AIDS Foundation, Youth:Tech:Health, as well as researchers at Yale, University of Washington, and Emory University.  

We have built strong collaborations with a number of apps and sites, including Adam4Adam, BarebackRT, Daddyhunt, Dudesnude, Grindr, Growlr, Jack’d, Manhunt, Scruff, and Poz Personals, and Tinder. 

Initiatives include:

  • Ongoing consultation with major app owners to support the health of their users including designing profiles, testing reminders, and messaging content
  • Developing, an HIV/STD testing home platform, promoted by apps
  • Launching, providing comprehensive sexual health information in a simple cut-and-paste format; best practices for app owners in how to create healthy, stigma-free environments for their users; links to existing advertising campaigns; a literature review of important articles about online prevention; news updates, and much more
  • Ongoing testing and placement of messaging to promote testing, PrEP, condom use, and HIV treatment
  • Promoting our award-winning web series and public service announcements, co-produced with Daddyhunt, which have already been seen more than nine million times
  • Creation, curation, and editing of blog content (here’s an example)
  • Training health departments on best practices in preventing HIV and STDs online, in collaboration with the National Technology Services Workgroup
  • Pioneering research with the University of Washington and the American Men’s Internet Survey to assess app users’ preferences about how best to support notifying their partners that they may have been exposed to an STD
  • Researching norm-setting strategies to reduce stigma online with Yale University, and developing, a stigma-reduction project with the first-ever cross-industry collaboration of ten apps and sites
  • Creating an inventory of apps’ sexual health features, policies, and contact information
  • Creating, allowing users to inform their partners that they may have been exposed to an STD, and, allowing individuals to inform their partners that they may have been exposed to COVID-19 (now run by NCSD). 

BHOC thanks The Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation, Gilead Sciences, Inc., and Google for their support of this work.

Jennifer Hecht, MPH
Co-founder & Director

Jen has 20 years of experience in the field of sexual health and substance use, having worked in syringe access, HIV prevention outreach, and community health clinics. Her work includes program development, evaluation, and community-based research. She has been co-PI and co-Investigator for research projects regarding structural interventions in bars and online and is co-founder and director of Building Healthy Online Communities. She is Executive Director of Springboard HealthLab, a new organization that fosters bold ideas in public health to advance health equity.  BHOC is headquartered at Springboard.

Emmett Patterson
Associate Director

Emmett has worked in community, national, and international health justice for 10 years. He is the former Global Health Projects Manager of Grindr for Equality, where he oversaw projects in Latin America, North Africa, and Eastern Europe, including HIV home testing programs, research on trans and non-binary health priorities, and responding to COVID-19. He got his start in HIV and harm reduction work as a capacity building specialist at AIDS United and doing harm reduction work for queer and trans people in his hometown in Southwestern Pennsylvania. His writing is featured in two anthologies on queer health, The Advocate, and in his regular contributions as a journalist for Emmett studied Public Health and Gender & Sexuality Studies at American University. He has a graduate certificate in LGBT Health Policy and Practice from the George Washington University.

Ryan Heath
Director of Operations

Ryan Heath brings a decade of experience working on product and engineering teams in health and analytics as well as being part of harm reduction and mental health outreach teams in San Francisco.


Tegan Mosugu, PhD
Director of Global Outreach & Engagement

Tegan Mosugu’s work cuts across social impact, academia, and media. With a fervent commitment to change-making, he’s driven initiatives in philanthropy and international development across the US and Africa, harnessing his expertise in communication and program management. Tackling pressing global issues like HIV/AIDS, Neglected Tropical Diseases, Malaria, and more, Tegan creates behavior change strategies, spearheads vaccination campaigns, mobilizes resources, and shapes advocacy strategies. As a global health scholar, his research focuses on evidence-based interventions for behavioral and population health. Tegan holds a PhD in Public & International Affairs and a health sciences doctorate. He is also an alumnus of Duke University, New York University, and University of Pennsylvania.

Asael Perez-Blanco
Customer Service, & Navigation (Together TakeMeHome)

Asael Perez-Blanco is a bilingual Customer Service and Sexual Health navigator. They previously worked at DC Public Libraries and Whitman-Walker Health. In their free time, they enjoy dancing and spending time in nature!


Joseph Dean-Sewell
Customer Service, & Navigation (Together TakeMeHome)

Joseph Dean-Sewell has a combination of direct service and programmatic experience working at a hospice (Joseph’s House DC), a grantmaking foundation (AIDS United), and a clinic (Mary’s Center). He is a part of the Customer Service and Sexual Health Navigator team.

Customer Service & Navigation Team Lead (Together TakeMeHome)

Metztli is a part of the Customer Service and Sexual Health Navigator team. Metztli, Brown queer Californian, has spent the past 5 years working in sexual health & HIV prevention with an emphasis on most marginalized communities locally & nationally.


Dan Wohlfeiler, MJ, MPH
Co-founder & Special Advisor

Dan has worked in HIV and STD prevention since 1987. He has focused much of his career on developing structural interventions and policies to reduce HIV and STD prevention and to create healthy environments, particularly those that affect sexual networks and disparities. He recently retired as the Chief of the Office of Public/Private Partnerships in California’s STD Control Branch, where he worked for 20 years. From 1990 to 1998, Dan directed the programs at the STOP AIDS Project in San Francisco. He has also worked in the Global Programme on AIDS at the World Health Organization, and the AIDS Prevention Program of Catalonia. Dan, a former journalist and documentary filmmaker, holds master’s degrees in public health and journalism from the University of California at Berkeley.


Here is a report on the September, 2014 meeting between site and app owners and HIV/STD prevention leaders. For more information on the formative research survey used to guide prevention efforts online, please see the resources linked below:

Building Healthy Online Communities held a meeting with STD/HIV program directors, HIV community-based organizations, and CDC representatives on Dec. 9, 2015 to discuss next steps in prioritizing interventions and research for prevention on dating sites and apps. Here is a report of the December 2015 meeting. was designed by Annabel Mangold. A special thanks to Michael Marcel, Susannah Champlin, Stephen Hicks, Lindsay O’Keefe and Emily Newman for all of their help in writing and editing. We’d also like to thank the hundreds of colleagues working in dating sites and apps, as well as in HIV and STD prevention, for providing their content and expertise.

BHOC thanks The Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation, Gilead Sciences, Inc., and Google for their support of this work.

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New CDC-Funded Project Aims to Get HIV Self-Testing Kits Into 1 Million Homes
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Grindr partners with free HIV test program
(CNN, 3/22/2023)

Grindr joins major public health push to distribute free at-home HIV tests
(NBC News, 3/21/2023)

TakeMeHome: Free HIV At-Home Test Kits Now Available on Grindr
(Grindr, 3/21/2023)

It’s Fine to Never Meet IRL
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Out for Delivery: Nation’s Largest-Ever HIV Self-Testing Program
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New Community-led Monkeypox Vaccine Locator Tool Available
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Send Every American a Free HIV Home Test
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Dating app users are disclosing STI and vaccine status for safer encounters and queer apps are leading the way
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“No Fats, No Femmes, Clean Only”: Fighting Stigmatizing Language on Hookup Apps
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HIV Self-Tests Boost Testing Among MSM
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TakeMeHome Ushers in a New Era of HIV Self-testing
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Interview with BHOC Director Dan Wohlfeiler
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Can Grindr Notifications Improve HIV Testing Rates?
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Grindr Now Offers Reminders For Users To Get Regular HIV Tests
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Gay Dating Website & App Owners Join the Fight Against HIV
(amfAR, 10/22/14)

Are you the owner or manager of an online dating app or website? Are you interested in promoting gay men’s health? Then this site is for you.

(If you are in public health or a researcher interested in HIV and STD prevention for gay men, then scroll down to see what this site can do for you).

Dating apps and websites provide an easy, fun, and efficient way for gay, bi, and trans men to meet. They also create a unique, effective opportunity to reach a community disproportionately affected by HIV and STDs.

What owners have repeatedly said to BHOC is that they want to help. They want to promote testing, provide their users with clear, accurate information, and be able to learn about and implement the most effective online prevention strategies.

We built this website to address those needs, and to provide a central, go-to source for information and resources to help you promote the health of your users.

This website will help you to effectively, efficiently, and at the lowest cost possible, take a more active role in transforming the way we approach sex ed and promote gay, bi and trans men’s health. Implementing strategies for your users to share personal sexual health preferences with each other, getting information into the hands of your users, and building a supportive and friendly online community will create a better user experience and keep your users healthy.

So what exactly will you find here?

In the “Making Your Site Healthier and Kinder” section we provide easy-to-follow ideas for how to integrate key features into your site that make it a kinder, healthier, and more supportive environment for your users. This means allowing users to share sexual health and preference information with each other more easily, and creating an online experience that combats stigma and is safe for everyone. “Making Your Site Healthier” includes information on:

  • Creating profile options that support users in sharing sexual health and preference information
  • Sharing anti-stigma efforts used by some dating apps and websites
  • Sharing ad campaigns that promote HIV testing, treatment, and fight stigma
  • Articles about dating and hook-up sites
  • LGBTQ and health awareness days you may be interested in knowing about

In the “Sexual Health Info” section you will find sex-ed content you can share with gay, bi, and trans men on your dating app or website. This information has been written in such a way to make it easy for you to drag-and-drop specific content into your app/website. However, the way this information makes it to your users is up to you. You may find it more suitable to link directly to our website, or to other online resources we have provided within the site. This content can also be customized to fit the language you use on your app or can be translated into an article for your website’s health blog. We value your feedback in making this information the most useful for your users. “Give Users Good Info” includes:

  • Sex-positive content, videos, tutorials, and links to other online resources for health information tailored to gay, bi and trans men’s needs
  • The latest and most accurate information on sex, HIV/STDs, condoms & lube, PrEP, Treatment as Prevention, PEP, mental health and drugs, and testing
  • HIV and STD testing reminder services

In the “Help Users Notify Partners” section you will find information on how you can make it easy for users to let their partners know that they may need to get tested based on a recent exposure to an STD. There are several different ways to do that. Some gay men like to do it themselves; others have found it easier to ask a health department or community clinic professional to do it for them. Partner notification is a well-honed, confidential way to make sure that users who are most at risk for STDs get offered the opportunity to get tested and treated. “Help Notifying Partners” includes:

  • An explanation of partner notification
  • The evidence behind the effectiveness of internet partner services
  • Resources including links and language for how to describe it to your users

If there’s something you don’t see here – and you want it – please contact us. Thank you for your ongoing leadership and support in gay men’s health.

Are you in public health or a researcher interested in HIV and STD prevention for gay men in dating apps and sites? Then this site is also for you.

If you’re here, you already know that dating sites and apps can play an important role in preventing HIV and STDs. They can help educate millions of users about how to take care of themselves. They can help users make informed choices about their sexual health, and to communicate effectively with their partners. This site is aimed at helping all of us – public health, researchers, and site and app owners – support those efforts as effectively and efficiently as possible.

In this site, you’ll find state-of-the art – and scientific – information on how to promote gay men’s health online. We’ve included information on how to buy ads online, examples of ad campaigns and contact information if you want to borrow them, and comprehensive sex ed information. We’ll also be supporting health departments and community organizations’ efforts to get alerts out to users when there’s an urgent outbreak.

If there’s something you don’t see here – and you want it – please contact us. Thank you for all you do and your commitment to gay men’s health.

This site was designed by Annabel Mangold. A special thanks to Michael Marcel, Susannah Champlin, Stephen Hicks, Lindsay O’Keefe and Emily Newman for all of their help in writing and editing. We’d also like to thank the hundreds of colleagues working in dating sites and apps, as well as in HIV and STD prevention, for providing their content and expertise.

BIG NEWS: In partnership with Emory University and NASTAD, we have been funded by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention to take national! We are excited to bring HIV self-testing throughout the U.S., including Puerto Rico. Thanks to our partners, TakeMeHome users, and many others for this monumental effort.

Read the full press release here.

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